Showing posts with label Reflection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reflection. Show all posts

Wedding Dresses for a happy couple...

Marriage is a legally sanctioned union, usually between a man and a woman. Its not only about awesome Wedding Dresses on wedding days. It is an institution which can join together people's lives in a variety of emotional and economic ways. Marriage is about sharing life together with the opposite sex you choose to be with you for the rest of your lives. Exploring the life of marriage is one serious and noble thing to dwell with. It takes you a lifetime to dwell on it if you choose to enter this kingdom. This is like a game where every members is expected to win the battle.

The couples is expected to be a leader to their siblings in honing their inner and outer personality. As we choose this life, we should bare in mind that its our responsibility to support the needs of our family specially, the needs of our children like education, clothing, and some other seen and unseen things that they need for them to grow a be better and wholesome person that they can be.

Anyhow, every single people out there who are now in their legal age is already thinking to get married soon. As they also think where they can have a cheap wedding invitations if in case they're ready to settle down. I guess, personally its one normal thing that we think about this matter in advance for us to prepare and put things in order. 'Cause marriage is not a joke! Its creating a life for a lifetime.

Nevertheless, planning for getting married is the best thing to consider if you want to have a well organized and memorable one. Its recommended that you must have a checklist for you to remember things that you've done and things you did not so that its easy for you to identify what are those things that you still need cope-up. For that, I have a simple and personal tips here upon considering in getting married. Here…

1. Plan everything you need on your big day.

Before your wedding arrives you need to know what would be the best thing to do in order to have a memorable big day. You need to have a not so expensive wedding invitations, Plus Size Wedding Dresses if your an extra bride / groom, delicious cuisines, the number of your guest, reception, church venue, and some other factors that you need to consider specially if your a bride on a budget. You can ask your friends or family for some suggestions but the final decision depends on you as it is your wedding day!

2. Know the number of your guest.

Basically, in order to determine how many types food you need to prepare and how much money to spend you need to know how many possible guest who will attend on your wedding celebration to avoid shortage and excessive foods. ( Its the best way to save! )

3. Choose the right dishes you want to prepare.

Definitely! In order to save of course. Beware on foods that are less eaten by those people you invite. ( I assume that you know what your friends and family likes.)

4. Prepare a not so expensive Invitations.

Exactly! For them to be aware on your wedding day and to see you both with your man wearing your Ball Gown Wedding Dresses and for them to definitely come! You can have an affordable wedding invitations online. Good thing is you can have it through online by just ordering at them anytime. You don’t have to worry ’cause they really make sure that you’ll be satisfied on their services aside from a great and amazing invitation cards.

All in all, those tips I have here is based on my own observation during my Sisters wedding. You can adopt it if you think it suits on you! Have a happy wedding!

Relief Stories: One Eyed Mom...

My mom only had one eye and I hated her. She was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She also collected little weeds and such to sell, anything for the money we needed. She was such an embarrassment.

There was this one day during elementary school. It was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school…

“Your mom only has one eye?!?!” … and they taunted me. I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world, so I said to my mom, “mom… why don’t you have the other eye? if you’re only going to make me a laughingstock, why don’t you just die?!!!”

My mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I’d wanted to say all this time. Maybe it was because my mom had not punished me, but I didn’t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly.

That night, I woke up and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. Mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, and then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart.

Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty. Then I studied real hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and then I got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had.

Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own and then I had kids, too… now I’m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it’s a place that doesn’t remind me of my mom. This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when… what?! Who’s this?! …it was my mother… still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom’s eye and I asked her, “who are you?!” “I don’t know you!!!” as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her,” How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter!” “GET OUT OF HERE NOW!!!” and to this, my mother quietly answered, “oh, I’m so sorry, I may have gotten the wrong address,” and she disappeared out of sight.

Thank goodness… she doesn’t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn’t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life. Then a wave of relief came upon me. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went after the reunion, went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house…just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But, I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand…. It was a letter to me.

" My son, I think my life has been long enough now and won’t visit Seoul anymore. But would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much and was so glad when heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school…. for you… and I’m sorry that I only have one eye and I was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mom, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye. So, I gave you mine. I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did.

The couple times that you were angry with me. I thought to myself, ‘it’s because he loves me…’ my son… oh, my son… "

Why should I say "No"

The most common remedy for improving your time management is to develop the ability of saying, “NO.” Since it is easier to recommend than to do, here are some tips on how to do it.

* Start with your own attitude. What is your self perception when you say, “NO?” Do you see yourself as a slacker? What about the perception of others, are you concerned about what others think of you? Are their opinions influenced by your refusal and does it really matter? Be truthful in your answers and your decision. We are forced to say, “NO” when we become overwhelmed by work, stress, or when a loved one delivers an ultimatum. Why not do the same when you’re managing for more success?

* Once you have made your decision to say, “NO” more often, your commitment is now a matter of discipline. Self-discipline is not a dirty word when we recall savoring the joy resulting from just a little improvement. Just practice all the techniques you’ve used successfully in the past. It’s only natural for others to point to those who are the most vocal which is not same as selecting the most competent. Resist and recognize ego stroking for what it is.

* Replace the task refused with something better. You can contribute a lot without being put on a committee or doing every task requested of you. Counter with, “Do you want me to forsake doing (one of your more meaningful contributions)?” Or, defer to other, more competent, persons.

* Calculate the risks of saying, “NO.” Test the requester’s reaction by delaying your final decision on your refusal. Test the system by conducting an informal survey with a control ‘Yes’ group compared with an experimental ‘No’ group and assess the consequences.

* Say, “NO” and duck which is a paraphrase of the, “Do It and Duck” strategy followed by some bureaucrats. This, of course depends on the situation: (a) the stakes are not high, (b) you’ve noted few results when doing previous tasks, or (c) you’re feeling frustrated with repeated and insincere requests.

* Ask yourself, “What’s the worst thing that can happen to you or to others?” This could include the follow-up to the ducking method suggested above. You can always pretend not to hear (a common technique with seniors.)

* There’s always the escape hatch, “I’ll consider (or I may be in a different position) AFTER I complete Project X.” Be honest by ensuring your inner thoughts are honest. Appear to be honest (recall the survey method in item 4 above) by checking your usage frequency.

Surprise your partner!

Do you plan to surprise your partner? or Have you ever looking for a great gift for your loved-ones? Well, why won't you give your partner a special gift even if there's no particular occasions? Besides that would be one of the best way to show to them that your deeply in-love with her/him. If you haven't have a gift yet for him/her try visiting the site of usgoldbureau.com 'cause they got a bullion rings or some other precious metals which you can definitely gave it to your partners as a gift for them.

For that, you can purchased your gift bullion rings at usgoldbureau.com through online and rest assure that your requested item will be delivered right into your door step. You need not to worry also if you opt to buy at them 'cause they are one of the certified provider and seller of bullions who mainly exist for about how many decades already.

Eventually, its really nice sometimes that we often give a gift to our partners to let them know that they are indeed important for us despite the fact that were busy on at work. You know why? Simply because its one of the best way to strengthen the bonds, love and trust we have for each other. So, for those of you who plan to give a lovely bullion rings for your partners better have chance now to visit their site and purchased at the online.

Taking Risk...

Everyone is entitled to be the master of there own life. For that reason, we must be careful of every decisions we take and must be ready to take the consequences. We should bare in mind that no matter how hard the situation is if we wish to have a fruitful outcome we must take the risk sometimes. Taking the risk is a choice. It's not mandatory to every individual. He/she can take it or live it according to their perceptions if this would be the best thing to do to hit the goal.

We should not forget the fact that failure is the other side of taking the risk. But beware, don't much deal on the negative side of it instead, fucos your mind on your goal. Be sensitive to the feelings of others specially, to those persons who do you think will greatly contribute for your success. But never ever dare to underestimate those persons behind your back and persons who keep competing you to the finish line 'cause they might be smarter than you. BE AWARE!

Life is Full of surprises. Its like a box chocolates you'll never know what you gonna get! And that was exactly the reason why we need to take the risk sometimes. It's one of the best way to really feel that life is indeed essential to everyone. It is were we can find the true meaning of leaving in the world of mortal people...

Have a blessed day everyone!...Enjoy every moment of your life. Never let the day passed without taking the risk..I'm pretty sure you'll gonna have fun everyday!...

Top 10 Fears that Stops Us from Having the Relationship we want...

1. It is inevitable that the relationship will end painfully.

Perhaps the relationship will end... when that happens some pain is probably inevitable. It is the idea of the inevitability of the end that needs to be addressed. To confront the fear of the future, or the past, it is important to remain in the present. Avoid talking about past experiences too much. Try not to over-anticipate where the relationship is going. By staying in the present, you give the relationship the greatest opportunity to evolve according to its own path. In addition, by staying in the present, you give yourself the opportunity to recognize and process intuitive signals about the relationship that may help to avoid additional hurt in the long run.

2. Nobody can ever really understand me.

Try to think of the psycho-emotional life of human beings as being made up of a deck of cards. There are only 52 cards in the deck and in any given round you may be dealt some combination of the 52. But everyone is playing with the same deck. Try to communicate what you are experiencing through the use of metaphor.... sometimes this is the best way to get others to connect with who we are and what we feel. Start off in a private journal perhaps, then graduate to close friends and associates... until you begin to become comfortable and feel visible.

3. I won’t be able to maintain the energy a good relationship requires.

Establishing and maintaining a healthy, satisfying relationship does require work, and the definition of work implies the expenditure of energy (remember high school physics). However, energy is a tricky notion and we often don’t give ourselves credit for just how capable we all are at creating it. A while back, I attended a seminar in which the facilitator insisted that energy was a choice. He insisted that if a million dollars were at stake, we would all find the energy to do what was necessary to get the money. Theoretically, I understood. Well, it was my turn to be one of the group leaders at another seminar; I finally understood what he meant. When I least felt I could go on, I found the energy to serve my team beyond what I thought was possible. I learned, then and there, that I was more capable of doing whatever it takes than I ever believed. Of course, a healthy relationship is supposed to provide you, from time to time, with the space to relax from the stresses of life. Be willing to ask for the space you need to regenerate (occasionally - don’t take advantage). If your partner is not willing to give you that space, perhaps there are other issues at play.

4. I’ll have to give up too much of myself.

Each individual has the power to set the boundaries for his/her life. If you have difficulty establishing firm boundaries for your “self” - you need to work on that with a coach or, perhaps even, a therapist. Be incredibly selfish. By exercising extreme self-care, you will be able to bring more of your authentic self into the relationship; the result will take the relationship to incredibly new levels.

5. He/she will eventually see the “real” me and reject me.

Human beings are multi-faceted; the falsehood is that the social self we present is not the authentic self.... it is!! It is a part of who we are. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses; everyone has a “shadow” (as Carl Jung defined it). Embrace all aspects of you. Until you are willing to accept the potential dark side of who you are, you are blocked from being able to fully actualize the self. All aspects of who you are to the world are part of the whole you!

6. He/she won’t understand my physical needs and desires.

There are plenty of sex therapists out there who will give advice on how to introduce requests for unusual sex play.... this topic is not merely about that area of physical relationships. Human sexuality is critical to our existence. No one should deny or avoid addressing what they want or need to satisfy this area of their lives. Again, it is important to share and to be open to a partner’s sharing... free of judgment. Through open communication, we can learn whether or not we are compatible with our partners. The sooner we discover this, the more able we are to successfully negotiate and invest in a relationship that is fully satisfying.

7. He/she will discover “this area” of my life where I am weak and will judge me entirely on that.

Risky, yes, but necessary. We must show a certain amount of vulnerability and trust that the person we’ve chosen authentically loves and cares for us, in spite of potential flaws. However, we cannot control other people’s responses. The best thing to do is to allow our partners to see who we are (over time) and learn whether or not they are worthy of our trust. But fearing their response doesn’t serve our own long term interest. If they judge us, we don’t want them... if they don’t, hiding from them only breeds mistrust.

8. Nobody is completely honest and trustworthy; so, I can’t trust him/her.

Some people are neither honest, nor worthy of our trust. This is a good reason to stay present and in touch with our intuition. Assuming that you can’t trust anybody indicates the issue is more related to earlier life issues. In order to have an incredible relationship, it is necessary to allow yourself to be vulnerable...not to the point of potential danger, and not fully vulnerable immediately. Again, stay present and listen to your intuitive responses.

9. He/she is trying to get something from me.

First, ask yourself if your partner has actually done anything to indicate this, or if you have the tendency to enter into relationships with this mindset. Remember, you are always in control and able to set the boundaries of what you are willing to give. Be fully responsible for what you freely give to people.... you won’t feel taken advantage of as easily. Also, relationships are about giving and getting.... you don’t need to worry that you will run out of yourself... there is always more of YOU! If you are willing to “give” yourself... then no one has the opportunity to “take” from you.

10. If I let him/her know how much I love him/her, they will interpret it as “need,” get scared and leave.

Sometimes, it is not necessary to report to your partner the full extent of every feeling you experience. The beauty and the value of experiencing ourselves in relationship with another human being is just that.... experiencing ourselves. Often there is great value in contemplating our own ability to experience the capacity to love and relate. Practice enjoying your own ability to relate and eventually you’ll feel comfortable communicating your experience without fear of how the other person may respond. Which, by the way, is quite out of your control anyway.

My Top 10 Things to be happy...

I know and we all both know that each of us is longing for a lifetime happiness. Happiness that could somehow give us the assurance to live life to the fullest. I know rather that there are also people out there who even want to give up because they can’t take anymore all the hardships they been through. But are you aware that life is isn’t all about hardships? Nor are you aware that each of us can make a simple steps to become happy? Well, try reading my post as to how to become happy… Here.. ( This is my opinion as what I think is right! )

Top10 Things to be happy:

1. Wake up with a smile. Despite the troubles and hardships we all have, Try to smile every time you woke up. Remember we all have a chance to change the destiny if we want too and if we will work on.

2. Be inspired. I know its hard to put into words on how to be inspired every time we start our day. But the simple reason to think to be inspired is your ALIVE. Means your being given a another chance to explore the beauty of the world.

3. Extend your Love & Care to others. To love and beloved is the simple explanation of becoming happy. Share your love to others even if they are strangers to you by just showing your care that means a lot for them.
4. Do what makes you happy. Don’t listen to those people who keep telling you to do this, to do that and anything. Follow what your desires though its good to listen advices but still in end your the master of your own life.

5. Do what you think is right! Even if how risky it is but if you think that it is the right things to do then fight for it. Don’t give up ’til you get what you need. But remember not everything will be given to you.

6. Show your LOVE to your family. Family is the only one who will be with us ’til the end. Even if how sinner we are nor how many times we fail their expectations still they will accept us. Asking why? Simply because they are our family. Let the word expound for you.

7. Look for your LOVE. I mean look for the person who will be with you in sickness and in health, in richer & in poorer. You know what I mean? I guess, we all know about it. So, try to spend time with them as much as you can ’cause its the best key to become happy ’til the end.

8. Share what you have. Are you aware of the saying ” Its better to give than to receive” Are you? Well, let the phrase speak for himself. It means a lot of happiness.

9. Be with your friends. They are our second family. In fact, they will make us happy with all those crazy things you been spending together nor those happenings that let you smile.

10. Put HIM in the mid of everything. Theres no other happiness we could ever claim if not because of HIM. Theres no other difficulties and success if without HIM. Always ask for his guidance as you travel along in your journey. Its the best key to be happy!

Have a great day everyone!…c”,)

Heart Reflection!

Why does everyone needs to fall in love? Why does everyone cry if they are being fooled by the person they love? and Why is it that there are also people who prefers to stay single rather than committing their selves into a risky relationships? If you are aware in a saying ” Everything has a reason ” then that might be the best answer to all those issues. Remember, we are all leaving in a real world. Perfect relationships only exist in an ideal society. We can never question the fact that we still have to dwell the reality of relationships despite the idea we had that relationships is as risky as life. Absolutely! Life in general is definitely unpredictable! We didn’t know what will happened for the next succeeding minutes. Just as like as falling in love!

At first, you seem to devote yourself to HIM/HER by giving all your time despite the fact that you still have a personal plans. Dating anywhere! Laughters here, there, everywhere but what comes next if you need to leave HIM/HER to pursue your plans? Do SHE/HE can understand you? Do, they wait for you? Do you think theres a perfect LOVE exist in this mortal world? What more else you can asked for?

Loving someone is absolutely amazing! No one can ever explain the feelings you feel towards the person involved. But its just too bad think that you keep your “PROMISE” to be back soon ’cause you’ll just need to fixed your life but in return SHE never take it seriously…sigh… It hurts! But of course we can never blame them if they tend to create their own path without you! Its their life after all… But do PROMISE are set to be broken? ‘Cause if that’s what promises means, then I dare you to won’t promise anymore but instead do what you think is right and what’s best.

Furthermore, guys I wish you all the best in life as we both traveling along in our individual path. We may both achieve and realized our individual endeavor! God Bless everyone!

How to be happy?

I know and we all both know that each of us is longing for a lifetime happiness. Happiness that could somehow give us the assurance to live life to the fullest. I know rather that there are also people out there who even want to give up because they can’t take anymore all the hardships they been through. But are you aware that life is isn’t all about hardships? Nor are you aware that each of us can make a simple steps to become happy? Well, try reading my post as to how to become happy… Here.. ( This is my opinion as what I think is right! )

Top10 Things to be happy:

1. Wake up with a smile. Despite the troubles and hardships we all have, Try to smile every time you woke up. Remember we all have a chance to change the destiny if we want too and if we will work on.

2. Be inspired. I know its hard to put into words on how to be inspired every time we start our day. But the simple reason to think to be inspired is your ALIVE. Means your being given a another chance to explore the beauty of the world.

3. Extend your Love & Care to others. To love and beloved is the simple explanation of becoming happy. Share your love to others even if they are strangers to you by just showing your care that means a lot for them.

4. Do what makes you happy. Don’t listen to those people who keep telling you to do this, to do that and anything. Follow what your desires though its good to listen advices but still in end your the master of your own life.

5. Do what you think is right! Even if how risky it is but if you think that it is the right things to do then fight for it. Don’t give up ’til you get what you need. But remember not everything will be given to you.

6. Show your LOVE to your family. Family is the only one who will be with us ’til the end. Even if how sinner we are nor how many times we fail their expectations still they will accept us. Asking why? Simply because they are our family. Let the word expound for you.

7. Look for your LOVE. I mean look for the person who will be with you in sickness and in health, in richer & in poorer. You know what I mean? I guess, we all know about it. So, try to spend time with them as much as you can ’cause its the best key to become happy ’til the end.

8. Share what you have. Are you aware of the saying ” Its better to give than to receive” Are you? Well, let the phrase speak for himself. It means a lot of happiness.

9. Be with your friends. They are our second family. In fact, they will make us happy with all those crazy things you been spending together nor those happenings that let you smile.

10. Put HIM in the mid of everything. Theres no other happiness we could ever claim if not because of HIM. Theres no other difficulties and success if without HIM. Always ask for his guidance as you travel along in your journey. Its the best key to be happy!

Life Realities...

As humans, everyone of us is entitled to exist in this mortal world. We came from flesh of dust we will returm in a flesh of dust. But before those times we are given a chance to explore and enjoy the beauty of life. God made us everything free for us to enjoy every creation he made for us. We were gifted with mind for us to developed and explore things. We are gifted with unconditional love for us to value each other. What's more important than taking care of your own family? What's more fulfilling than seeing those person you care and love at peace? What's more else you can ask if you have the wealth of knowledge to earn a living and survive, and a lovely familt who supports you all the way? I guess, nothing more you can ask aside from good health.

As we grow older and as we find the real meaning of our extistence we mostly share what we have except to those people who doesn't have a heart. I don't condemn them well in fact I pray for them that they well find what they search and what they discern to have.

Anyhow, I just one thing to share with you about elderly members of your family. Do you think you will exist without them? Do you think you will savor the fruits you've achieved if you don't know how to value those persons around you? I guess, you can but I'm sure you will not be happy indeed. So, if you have a family member who do need your full attention espcecially if its your Grand-Mother and Father or and Uncle, relatives or even just a friend an stanger you meet be nice to them and pray for their safety and health. Specifically, it obvious that your Grand-Mother or Grand-Father needs you to accompany them living a life. If they need something like medicines, clothings, kendall briefs, and some other valuable things be patient to provide it for them. Remember, you'll arrived on their stage too and besides they are your family. So, extend your love, care and understanding to those people who needs it and don't expect for return. God will do the rest.

Education for Children

Do you know that education is the basic foundation of knowledge and it plays a vital role in achieving success and well-being? Do you know that it is a vital element in our life and it simply makes us more mature and brave enough to facing any realty in life? Well, I conclude that education is indeed important in our everybody lives. For that, I highly recommend to each and every one of you parents that to remain responsive to the needs of their children specifically, the education aspects of a child. They must be responsible in providing quality early childhood education for their children who are at a vulnerable, but highly curious age for learning. Their minds need enrichment during their younger years and that needs to come from their education. Remember, a good foundation of education for every child is indeed crucial to become a good and productive citizen as they grow. So, every parent should seek the opinions from those who are experienced regarding daycare centers. They must consider the contributing factors that might possibly expedite the learning process of a child and to utilize this. Moreover, it is therefore obvious that a child development center plays an essential role in the child's development but also in nation building. Every child's mind can thrive and be better, and have the chance to enrich those of others in the future. For those parents out there who wish to send their children to a high quality and very standardized school, consider Green Acres Learning Center. As they say: 'cause with them, the future of your children is as bright as a morning star!".

Relief Stories: Break-up Letter

http://fonefrenzy.files.wordpress.com/2009/08/broken-heart.jpgThis would probably the last letter you will read from me. Its not because I will stop loving you. Doing so would be a sin, but just that I think its enough that you already know the feelings I have inside for you. I don't really care what other people might say because what matters most at this time is to show my sincerity in all the things I do for you..

Knowing that you has made me everything meaningful to me giving me more reasons to love my life and treasure all the things that I already have. Lets just say that I once found very hard to face. You have become my inspiration in everything I do in the hope of becoming the perfect one for you. But I guess what I am will never be enough for you.

It has been very nice being with you. Time just slipped away when we talked about the things that never really mattered to me before until you made me aware of them that was when I discovered that may things are indeed interesting. Well maybe its not the topic itself but the way you expressed yourself in the voice that lingers in my ears and words that echo eternally in my mind. All those things have made me happy more that anything. I never expected that after then would come great sorrow when I realized that they were never meant for me.

Loving you has made a mixed feeling of joy and sorrow. I cant really explain the feeling and I dont want to please dont think that I regret having known you because you are the most memorable gift that fate has blessed my life with. You still are and always be.I guess when you’re gone, ill stop living. Without you life will hold no more meaning. Even so I know time will heal the wounds created but the scars will always be there to remind me that I have loved and lost someone as good as you.

One thing for sure is that I will always be here loving you.This would probably the last letter you will read from me. Its not because I will stop loving you. Doing so would be a sin, but just that I think its enough that you already know the feelings I have inside for you. I dont really care what other people might say because what matters most at this time is to show my sincerity in all the things I do for you.Knowing that you has made me everything meaningful to me giving me more reasons to love my life and treasure all the things that I already have. Lets just say that I once found very hard to face. You have become my inspiration in everything I do in the hope of becoming the perfect one for you. But I guess what I am will never be enough for you.

It has been very nice being with you. Time just slipped away when we talked about the things that never really mattered to me before until you made me aware of them that was when I discovered that may things are indeed interesting. Well maybe its not the topic itself but the way you expressed yourself in the voice that lingers in my ears and words that echo eternally in my mind. All those things have made me happy more that anything. I never expected that after then would come great sorrow when I realized that they were never meant for me.

Loving you has made a mixed feeling of joy and sorrow. I cant really explain the feeling and I don’t want to please don’t think that I regret having known you because you are the most memorable gift that fate has blessed my life with. You still are and always be. I guess when you’re gone, ill stop living. Without you life will hold no more meaning. Even so I know time will heal the wounds created but the scars will always be there to remind me that I have loved and lost someone as good as you. One thing for sure is that I will always be here loving you.